I wish I was more magnanimous than I pretend to be but all I am is a bit stoical and urbane, and I can't even do that right.
I keep trivial grudges and imagine about 20 different scenarios of revenge while you forget it ever happened. I'll slither into your spot amongst your friends and let them invite me to your pool party. And once I am satisfied I will kindly drop your friends after I make them hate you. Because I am not half as magnanimous as I pretend to be, because I cannot forgive liars, cheaters, hypocrites, and back stabbers. Whether you did it to me or the class idiot.
It probably just makes me as bad as you.